Max Rich-Gayko’s love for soccer started at age 5. What began as a simple childhood hobby quickly became a journey of ambition and resilience.
Over the years, Rich-Gayko has navigated demanding coaches, top clubs, and multiple injuries, all while learning to balance pressure and rediscover his love for the sport.
“I started playing soccer when I was 5 years old,” Rich-Gayko said.
In middle school, he played with several youth clubs and eventually found a home at San Carlos United.
“That was probably the most fun I had with soccer. I was with all my friends,” Rich-Gayko said.
At the end of eighth grade, Rich-Gayko faced a pivotal decision. He tried out for Silicon Valley Soccer Academy and Woodside Soccer Club, ultimately choosing Woodside, a Major League Soccer (MLS) NEXT team. The head coach’s intense approach wore on him.
“His way of coaching really affected my confidence. I became way too consumed by soccer, and my social life became unhealthy. I would just push people away,” Rich-Gayko said.
During four weekly practices and two weekend games, Rich-Gayko found support from his assistant coach.
“Rod made me feel valued. If I made a mistake, he would just focus on the next play rather than drag on that mistake,” Rich-Gayko said.
Injuries added further challenges. Last season, he did not play for Carlmont, as he had broken his foot in an away game, initially thinking it was a sprain.
“I kept playing the rest of the game, which is pretty stupid, but it’s what happens,” Rich-Gayko said.
Later, he dealt with a hamstring injury, a re-injured foot, and a torn acromioclavicular (AC) joint in his shoulder. Despite the setbacks, his passion for soccer never faded. However, confidence had been a recurring challenge. He once struggled under pressure but has learned to stay grounded.
“I don’t really freak out anymore for soccer. Maybe I’m a little nervous, but I know I’m capable, and I focus on what I can control,” Rich-Gayko said.
Today, Rich-Gayko plays for Carlmont varsity soccer, where the environment is supportive, and the game feels fun again.
“It’s different. I’m not worried about making a mistake. The coaches are nice, and it’s fun,” Rich-Gayko said.
The social bonds formed through the sport have been equally important.
“A lot of my closest friends are through soccer. It’s taught me to work with people, how to deal with pressure, and how to keep enjoying something when it’s tough,” Rich-Gayko said.
Rich-Gayko’s perspective has not gone unnoticed. Fellow soccer players admire his discipline and resilience.
“A soccer player is a reflection of his identity and personality. He’s very kind, determined, and driven in what he does,” said teammate Gianni Haggarty.
Carlmont varsity soccer coach Ryan Freeman echoes this praise.
“From the start, Max showed an impressive combination of presence and skill that we often see from an upperclassman. He’s also a very versatile player who can take on many different roles for a team,” Freeman said.
Looking ahead, Rich-Gayko hopes to strike a balance between his passion for the sport and academics. Above all, his journey embodies resilience, dedication, and a genuine love for the game.
